Happy Thanksgiving!
Today, my family and I joined Melissa and her family to celebrate the holiday. When she extended the invitation, I didn’t hesitate to accept, even though I was a little concerned about how good of company I would be. After all, I had treatment just yesterday.
Typically, I have a burst of energy the day after treatment, so I was hopeful—and thankfully, things went just fine. It felt like a classic Thanksgiving, except for one notable downside: I couldn’t taste a thing. That didn’t stop me from eating, though, because I knew my body needed the nutrition.
After the meal came football, followed by a short nap. (The couch strikes again!) But in between those moments, I found myself reflecting on the season’s most popular question: “What are you grateful for?”
Given my current state—fighting Stage 2 Triple-Negative Breast Cancer and battling every side effect chemo has thrown at me—you might think I wouldn’t have much to be grateful for. But I beg to differ.
Here’s what I’m thankful for this year:
1. My Resilient Mother
My mother draws from my strength to keep her own feelings in check. She’s been a steady source of love and support, ensuring I have everything I need, from meals to emotional care. Her resilience is a reflection of the bond we share.
2. My Incredible Daughter
My daughter has become my guardian angel in ways I never expected. She watches over me during my deep naps and even tucks me into bed at night. Her tender care and quiet strength give me so much comfort. She reminds me every day what unconditional love looks like.
3. My Loving Son
My son, despite his love for gaming, makes time to check on me. He’s even set a timer on his phone to make sure he remembers. Every time he kisses me on the cheek and says, “I love you,” I feel my heart swell. Those small gestures are monumental to me.
4. Friends Who Show Up in Big and Small Ways
I’m endlessly grateful for friends who take time from their busy schedules—and money from their wallets—to fly here just to see me. These visits bring me laughter and joy in ways that only they can. I’m also grateful for the friends who reach out regularly, whether it’s a quick check-in text or a phone call that brightens my day. Their love and support remind me that I’m never alone in this fight.
I’m especially thankful for the friends who pick me up and take me to every single treatment session, rain or shine. They entertain me during those long hours, keeping my mind at ease with their jokes, stories, and even their occasional soft snores. These moments of care and companionship make such a difference, turning a daunting experience into something manageable, and dare I say, even comforting at times.
5. Coworkers Who Go Above and Beyond
My coworkers have truly shown their hearts. Some have sent food to help my family, while others have offered to pitch in around the house. Then there are those who call me daily, not just to check in but to remind me to stay home and away from the office so I can stay safe and healthy. Their care extends beyond the workplace, and it means the world to me.
6. Healthcare Workers
I am incredibly grateful for the healthcare workers who have been by my side through this journey. From the nurses who administer my treatments with care to the doctors who explain every step with patience and clarity, they have all made this grueling process feel a little less daunting. I’ve had nurses who share a laugh with me, who listen without judgment when I vent about the challenges, and who remind me that it’s okay to have hard days. One nurse even shared her own story of battling breast cancer, which gave me a sense of solidarity and inspiration. Their dedication and humanity have been a constant source of strength, and I am so thankful for their role in helping me fight this battle.
7. Moments of Humor
They say laughter is the best medicine, and I can attest to that. Even on the hardest days, I’ve found humor peeking through the cracks. From the soft snores of my treatment companions to the remote-control battles during chemo sessions, these moments remind me that life doesn’t stop being funny just because it gets hard. I’ve joked with friends and family about my couch seemingly growing arms to hold me hostage in long naps, and even poked fun at my taste buds for staging a full-blown mutiny. These small, silly moments keep me grounded and remind me not to take everything so seriously. They’re proof that even in the toughest times, there’s always a reason to smile—or at least smirk.
8. My Own Determination
This journey has taught me just how strong I really am. Each week, I show up for treatment, knowing that it’s going to be tough but trusting in my ability to get through it. I’ve faced pain, fatigue, and side effects that have tested me physically and emotionally, but I keep going because I know what’s at stake: my life. I’ve had moments where I’ve felt defeated—days where my body just wouldn’t cooperate—but I’ve learned to rest, not quit. I remind myself daily that this fight is temporary, and there is life waiting for me on the other side of this war. My determination to beat cancer isn’t just about survival—it’s about thriving and showing myself that I am capable of enduring and overcoming anything.
Gratitude in the Midst of the Fight
This Thanksgiving, I’m reminded that even in the hardest seasons, there’s still so much to be thankful for. My battle with cancer has shown me the depth of the relationships in my life and the power of a strong support system.
To everyone who has cheered me on, cared for me, or simply held me in their thoughts: thank you. You’ve made this fight not just bearable but meaningful.
Here’s to gratitude, resilience, and the people who make life beautiful—even on the toughest days.
Happy Thanksgiving! ❤️
